Okay.. i’m an average, 14 year old boy, my father killed himself, & there has been alott of trouble throughout my family… Okay i get realy depressed easily lately too.. Okay, umm, This might be weird..butt the last 5-6-7 days my anus hasent been feeling right.. It has gotten itchy, & now it is paining a bit now.. & i keep on thinking its a Hemmroid, or somthing very serious thats the way i am, & im afraid that people wont like me & ill loose freinds if it is, i never had any sex.. Im a responsiable,Teen, & i am really hard to get sick.. I have a very good amune system..& im getting depressed, because if it is a hemmroid, then im affraid that, im the only one that has it out of all my freinds..& that im alone, & that it can never be cured, at all just treated.:( Im getting really depressed. I always doo abiout this kind of stuff, is hemmroids a big deal, &can it bee cured for good..& I have a girlfreind, which makes me feel amazing..&if i get a Hemroid,will she break it between us:(..
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You can get over the hemroid,and have it clear in no time at all.
Check out this medical site for answers to your question.
Hemorrhoids are swollen veins in your rectum or anus. The type of hemorrhoid you have depends on where it occurs. Internal hemorrhoids involve the veins inside your rectum. You can’t feel pain on the inside of your rectum, so you may not feel pain from an internal hemorrhoid. You may get bleeding or you may feel a fullness in the rectum, like you need to have a bowel movement.
Hemorrhoids that involve veins outside your anus – in your skin – are called external hemorrhoids. They may crack and bleed from straining or rubbing. External hemorrhoids can be itchy and painful, especially if a blood clot forms.
One of the main things that can lead to hemorrhoids is straining when you’re trying to have a bowel movement. This may happen if you’re constipated or if you have diarrhea. It may also happen if you sit on the toilet too long. When you sit on the toilet, your anus relaxes. The veins in your anus then fill with blood, which puts pressure on those veins.
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http://www.cfpc.ca/English/cfpc/programs/patient%20education/hemorrhoids/default.asp?s=1
If it’s a hemerhoid (however I spelled it) then you can use Prep H cream, oint, or pads to wipe. Those work wonders!
You may be obsessing about a small problem so that you do not have to deal with the other difficulties that you are facing. First, I suggest you clear up any doubts about any possible medical problems by seeing a doctor. He will be able to tell you what treatment you may need for the anal discomfort–which could be anything, including a symptom of just feeling sort of depressed. You probably should talk to the doctor about what you are calling depression, which may be just a normal grief process. He or she may recommend a psychologist so that you can work on these feelings. Good luck!
It is probably an infection that many people get at your age. Have you just started puberty? Hemroids are not common in 14 year old boys. I don’t think hemroids can be passed around. They are not permanent. You should talk to someone like a school counselor. Girls break up with boys for many reasons. Relationships at this age often are not lasting, but they usually will not break because of something like this.
First, do yourself a huge favor, and give yourself a breather.
Second: You don’t know you’ve got a hemorrhoid, and I’d let a doctor make that determination. Until then, relax, please.
Third: If you’ve got a hemorrhoid, who in the world told you that’s fatal to your social life? Because that’s simply not true. Although I’m 52, I do remember that, when I was 15, one of my friends did have a hemorrhoid, and it required some minor surgery and dietary changes. But, this kid was always popular (and he’s still a pretty popular guy, in fact).
I’m sorry to hear that you’re going through some rough times, and I know that, even without all these other items on your plate, being a teenager is *not* an easy time of life, sometimes.
Okay you’re 14 years old & it seems that you’re going through a lot. It’s really hard to cope up with losing a father. My father died of heart attack when I was 17. So I think you need “support” & guidance from your mother & other family members. Are you close to your mom? If you are then tell her about your problem. If not do you have an older brother or an uncle? It would be easier for you to open up to a male too. Regarding your problem do you notice a “mass” or lump that’s protruding (coming out) when you defecate? Or is there blood in your stools? If there are then go see a doctor to have it examined. It’s good to know that you’re a very responsible teen. But don’t think that you’ll lose friends just because you have hemorrhoids. Hemorrhoids are NOT a big deal. It can be treated. You don’t even have to tell your friends about it. So cheer up!
It’s good to know you have a girlfriend that makes you happy. But I don’t think hemorrhoids would be a cause for break-up. If she does break up with you then it only means she’s no good for you. That’s just hemorrhoids ok! 
So tell your problem to your mom or older brother or uncle whoever you’re most comfortable with. Then that person can accompany you to a doctor ok? I hope this helps. -dennisMD
Try your best to relax. I know it’s not easy, but you’ve got to try. About the hemorrhoid, check with a doctor. It’s most likely something that can be treated with over-the-counter medicine like Preparation H. I got it in college once and it went away after a couple of days of Prep H (and some hot baths to help ease the pain). The links here might help you avoid them in the future:
http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&safe=off&q=how+to+avoid+hemorrhoids&btnG=Search
Your hemorrhoid, if that’s what it turns out to be, is very common. Chances are it’s nothing serious. See a doctor soon though, OK?
About your girlfriend, don’t worry about that much either. Try to be as confident as you can. Girls really like confident guys (but ones who aren’t stuck up). Also, continue to treat her well. If you’re not ready to tell her about your hemorrhoid, you don’t have to. Don’t shut her off or be rude to her, because that can turn her away from you; just tell her you’ve been feeling a little sick and give yourself a couple of days for Preparation H or whatever the doctor gave you to work.
The much more serious issue going on with you is your father’s death. That’s got to be incredibly painful for you. You’re trying really hard to cope right now, so give yourself a break and try not to be so afraid of the future. Do you have a counselor or therapist? Are you talking to the one at school? You’re going through a really, really rough time, but things will get better. Please find an adult you can talk to and one who can help you answer at least some of your questions and help you figure out some of your concerns. Take care of yourself out there. *hug*
well about your dad killing his self i am very sorry ….
i know how that goes my mom killed her self as well and it hurts but you cant let that mess up every thing you have to look at the good thing and not the bad im not saying for get but its best not to dwell on everything….bad that happens it leading to dout and about the hemmroids go to a doctor if its freaking you out so bad…and if ppl cant see past it if thats what that is then they where not true friends but dont worry things will look up take it from me im 18 and might be pregante and i dont have a mom to help but i try to look at the bright side of things there will always be some one who will love you…. k
hope every thing works out for you